Why Change Isn’t the Enemy: Messy Transitions, Career Pivots & Embracing the Hard Stuff

Life transitions are rarely easy. Whether it's a career pivot, job loss, or shifting friendships, change brings uncertainty, growth, and, sometimes, grief. In this episode of Tarin It Up, I sit down with my friend Brooke to talk about the messy, complicated realities of navigating big life shifts.

Brooke shares her journey from Alaska to Arizona, how she unexpectedly lost her job, and what it’s really like to juggle friendships within small businesses. We dive into the emotional side of career changes, the challenges of freelancing, and why sharing both the wins and the struggles is so important.

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The Emotional Impact of Career Transitions

Losing a job isn’t just about losing a paycheck—it can feel like losing a part of your identity. Brooke opens up about what it was like to process that grief while also embracing new opportunities. We talk about the difficult decisions that come with running a small business, how friendships can evolve (or be tested) in professional settings, and why it's okay to question your career path.

“Everything happens for a reason.” – Brooke

Freelancing & Embracing Uncertainty

Brooke and I also dive into the world of freelancing—how it offers freedom but requires setting clear boundaries. We talk about the fear of putting yourself out there, the importance of building connections despite uncertainty, and the lessons we’ve learned along the way.

“You get a hundred no’s for one yes.” – Brooke

Key Takeaways from This Episode

✅ Talking about the tough parts of life is just as important as celebrating the wins.
✅ Losing a job often means grieving more than just the job itself.
✅ Friendships in business can evolve or be tested, and that’s okay.
✅ Freelancing allows for personal freedom but requires strong boundaries.
✅ Vulnerability connects us more than perfection ever will.

Join the Conversation

Have you ever faced a big life or career transition? How did you navigate it? Drop a comment or DM me on Instagram—I’d love to hear your story.

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